2 lessons from the parable of the unforgiving servant: because Christ has forgiven us, we are able (but not always willing) to extend the same mercy and forgiveness to those who have offended us; the UNFORGIVING person becomes the UNFORGIVEN person. The offenses of others toward us are minimal, compared to our offenses against a holy God. Bad attitudes harbored in your heart towards another person hurts you far more than it does them.